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> All parents have the right to raise their kids how they want.

Up to a point, yes. Beyond that point, no. We have a word for that point: "abuse". That word doesn't really have semantic content beyond "those things we as a society have decided that we will not allow parents to do or not do to their children." There are some things that parents should not do to their children, like beating them. There are some things parents must do to their children, like feeding them. And there are lots of things in the middle that are permissible but not obligatory. I'm not a fan of absolute statements about parental rights.

Why not go a step further? It seems like exposing children to language during the critical window might reasonably belong in the obligatory category. Not exposing children to language during the critical window, causing an otherwise cognitively normal child to never develop language skills beyond the 4th grade level, I think maybe we should classify that as abuse. And in the case of a deaf child of hearing parents, it sounds like the only ways to expose the child to language are to ship the child off to a deaf community, or a cochlear implant. So based on your account of the facts, I think I might say that hearing parents of a deaf child are obligated to do one of those two things.

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