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Amanda Luce's avatar

I love how many of the commenters defending the dad's behavior in this case also got "ghosted" by their own children "for no reason."

I was expecting a little bit of mild pushback, something along the lines of, "Hey, are you sure that the dad was being controlling? I don't think the evidence available really shows this..."

Meanwhile, the comments I got: "How DARE you question this LOVING FATHER'S attempt to SAVE his daughter's LIFE!??? Why yes, my kid cut off contact from me FOR NO REASON, why do you ask!???"

There was a reason. There's always a reason. I'll just drop these famous essays here:

"The Missing Missing Reasons" - https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html

"When the Missing Reasons Aren't Missing" - https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-reasons-given.html

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I agree the father's behavior here is not great, but I can understand it as an attempt to save his daughter's life. The part of this that alarms me is that medical decisions aren't justiciable (I believe that is the word you were going for rather than judiciable, but I'm not trained in Canadian law). If the question of whether a person can be killed hinges on medical facts, and those facts cannot be evaluated by a judge or jury in a court of law, that is absolutely terrifying. I think you've just turned me against at least Canada's version of MAID. Even outside the MAID context, how on earth do you have a trial on a medical malpractice claim without a judge or jury deciding medical facts?

This notion of medical decisions not being justiciable has two horrifying effects. Firstly, it essentially turns doctors into legal decisionmakers, selected not by a democratic process like judges or a random process like juries, but by professional credentials. That is not compatible with a free society.

Secondly, it means the medical facts at the heart of a case never become public. There is a reason that virtually all trials are public. When the awesome power of the state is invoked, in order to keep that power democratically accountable, the facts of how it is actually used need to get out into the public eye where voters can evaluate them and decide if they want to vote for politicians who will make changes. This is the main reason why the US constitution's 6th Amendment give the defendant the right to a public trial, but does not give the defendant the right to a private trial. The publicness of the trial is for the benefit of the voters and the functioning of democracy, it is not for the benefit of the parties. In this case, the citizens of Canada are entitled to decide whether they want this MAID program to continue. The only way they can make that decision is if they know the facts of the controversial cases, such as this one. They need to know what medical condition this woman was diagnosed with that the MAID decision was based on, and what medical tests formed the basis of that diagnosis. They have been deprived of that knowledge, and that undermines the legitimacy of the MAID program. So yea, I think this puts me firmly in the camp of opposing any assisted suicide program that doesn't, at least in a contested case, involve judicial review of medical facts.

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